Question: I am a single woman looking for a relationship. I heard that in Feng Shui it is better to have two bedside tables in the bedroom than one. Is that true? And do you suggest that I do that in my bedroom?

–Andrea from Madison, Wisconsin

CJ: Here is my answer. In my former work as a Feng Shui Consultant, many of my clients were single and looking for relationships. After seeing some of their bedrooms with a one-night-stand next to their bed, I could see how the symbology of the room kept them in their single status. That coupled with images on the wall of a single person or a single object…well, you get my meaning.  Whenever someone is looking for a romantic partnership in their life I always suggest to start by thinking in the number two. And yes, that includes adding a second bedside table. The idea is to make room for your beloved in a physical and energetic way. Think of it as an invitation to the Universe to draw this special person to you. So yes, Andrea, add a second bedside table and try to match it to the one you already have. Think of it as equal sides to the relationship. While you’re at it, bring in matching lamps, candles and create romance in the bedroom with passionate colors, lush fabric and whatever else you love. While your waiting for your partner to show up, you can really get into loving yourself in your favorite new sacred space. Good luck and keep me posted!