friendship, gratitude and turning 40
By on August 14th, 2008
As a Leo and a triple fire sign, (Aries moon, Aries rising) born in the summer of love, I never really thought about what it would be like when I turned 40. It was always about summer and just happy being another year older. This year, however, not only marks a new decade in my life (whew I made it!) but also a solar and lunar eclipse this month which has heightened my sense of awareness around everything and I’ll admit it has sometimes been challenging. Last Tuesday (my actual b-day) I awoke to an overwhelming sense of gratitude and this comfortable feeling in my skin that I can’t really describe. I can only say that being surrounded by 11 of my most loving friends (+ 1 loving boyfriend + 1 loving niece) last night at dinner put me into a place where I felt like honey on a warm piece of toast–the perfect union. This 40 year old has arrived and is excited to be alive.
August 14th, 2008 at 9:26 am
Hi Cheryl! Just a little belated HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
August 14th, 2008 at 11:41 am
Thanks Mike, I’m going to L.A. in October sometime and maybe we can have lunch!
August 14th, 2008 at 5:03 pm
I’m so happy I was able to celebrate the beginning of this decade with you. I love you!
August 15th, 2008 at 11:38 am
I am so grateful that you are my friend and that I was included in your celebration. I love you dearly…
August 16th, 2008 at 2:33 pm
That was so very touchy, and because I passed mine, I will remember what I learned today, for the next one.
August 16th, 2008 at 10:30 pm
Love your website Cheryl! Happy belated 40th, It’s people like you that make the world a much more beautiful place to live in.
September 11th, 2008 at 4:01 pm
Sister!!! This is beautiful, and so are you! I love the blog…. You are so passionate, and better yet, active about that passion. I am sending you much love and light — you look more radiant than ever! Portland has definetly suited you, but I must say LA (me, specifically) misses you! I wish you could come to the Global Mala Sacred Movement & Music Festival next Sun with me! Lotsa love, Jen
February 27th, 2009 at 8:57 pm
Cheryl,
I’ve finally had time to write up the story I wanted to do on you for the Improve your Home and Garden site. What a great excuse to play on your website! I came across this article in my quest to adequately describe your site and it got me reflecting back to my 40th birthday - 6 years ago. I clearly remember thinking, “I’m all grown up now and I can do what I want.” Well, it took me another 5 years to truly step into that belief, but the great news is - 40 is hardly old! While I may not always be thrilled at the changes my body is undergoing, I revel in having wonderful memories and the wisdom to steer my life around potential emotional land mines. Experience is everything. So is attitude. You are truly only as old as you feel - and people respond to that in kind. So, how great to be able to act childish and yet still have my “adulthood” to fall back on?! Happy new decade - the best part of your life is just beginning!
Warmly, Lis
February 27th, 2009 at 9:02 pm
Thanks Lis,
That was such a sweet comment you left. Thank-you. I agree that the best part of my life is beginning and I have that deep intuitive knowing that life with only get better. CJ